On October 30, 2012, Grants Pass lost a local treasure. Raymond (Ray) Sefchick passed away at the Fairview Transitional Health Center. While Ray never gained fame in local politics or charity work, he was nevertheless a bright spot on the hearts and minds of countless people living and working in Grants Pass. He came to the city back in the early 70s to escape the bustle of Southern California and create a useful life. He did so and then some.
Ray was a born salesman who left clients satisfied with whatever he sold and coming back for more since he had the knack of being there for them long after the sale. He sold cars, RVs and finally household appliances at Patinos’s on “G” Street. His funeral service was a testimony to his reliability and willingness to stand behind any product he sold.
Selling was only a facet of his interaction with the citizenry. He was a minister who officiated at funerals for veterans and marriages for several people. His services were performed out of love and caring and he never founded a church although he could have. Better yet, he remained available to people of all faiths and beliefs. He was also a musician from years gone by and his accordion and voice graced several lounges. He also worked as a dealer at a Gold Hill casino but again, he did it for his love of the game. He was also a consummate joke-teller and could keep a group in stitches with a non-stop supply of jokes appropriate to any occasion.
Nevertheless, his work ethic and performance represented just another facet of his bright personality. He was a friend to many and helping hand to those in need. His circle of friends was a testimony to his enormous heart. The outpouring of sympathy at his death was impressive. He is remembered as being a person who would go the extra mile to be helpful and who asked nothing in return other than the chance to be a friend.
Two of his sisters and I his brother, were around at the end but in all honesty, his friends were a larger part of his life because they had the pleasure of his company on a daily basis. I can honestly say that Ray’s friends are our friends as well.
Rest in peace Raymie Boy, you truly earned it.
In lieu of flowers a memorial fund has been set up in memory of Ray at Peppermint Ridge where his sister Barbara resides. Peppermint Ridge is a wonderful home for the developmentally disabled. Donations to Peppermint Ridge can be sent to 825 Magnolia Ave, Corona, CA 90279.
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